But I have learned the hardest thing to do in one's life is to leave the comfort zone.
This means you leave the ground underneath you, you yank the roots which grounded you, and you turn on the people who thought loved you but understand they only had a vested interest in keeping you down.
But if you can stand the fear, the backlash, and loneliness for a bit...than you will have wings to go any where you want.
I will explain more later...but there is more love than you can imagine beyond that comfort zone.
Especially when your comfort zone was some fucked up shit.