Oh Lord

Here comes the family!

You know the real pain in knowing someone is ill, is in the family dynamics that accompanies this knowledge. All of the sudden everyone goes into crisis mode. When slapped in the face with someone's life span coming to a close, we can't help but look at the bruise of our own mortality in the mirror and the rationalities we have been making for our own lives.

Holy Cow!!

Here comes everyone trying to resolve everything.

Dear family,

Chill out.

Don't be coming here with a heap of remorse about anything you have ever done. For Christ sakes we all know each other way too well to ever hold each others issues as personal attack against one another.

We are an emotional family.

We have issues.

We have complaints.

We have arguments.

That is who we are.

But we also love each other so much that it hurts us when one of us is hurting.

I don't want anyone hurting so I am going to spare you the emotional turmoil that you like to whip up in drama time by asking you to ask yourself one simple little, itty, bitty question.

Do you love your family?


Yes you do!!

That is all you need to ask yourself.

That is all you need to know to resolve past issues that are old plays and need not to find a new stage.

All this ridiculousness of thinking we didn't do enough to show our love is ridiculous. I know my family and yes, we are all, the biggest pain in the rears since the elephant began walking this earth, but we love each other for better or worse and there isn't anyone in our family that doesn't know that.

So when you come here, enjoy the fighting, the nit picking, the teasing, the laughing, the joking, the crying and most importantly enjoy the big glorious dysfunctional orgy that is our family.

Blondes can't wait for the fun to begin!!

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